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Re: Fake it til you make it?
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Mate2237
on 10/12/2025, 20:25:44 UTC
Quote from: Yeesha on December 09, 2025, 02:50:47 PM
Quote from: harapan on October 02, 2025, 02:37:33 PM
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When i see someone who is economically and financially stable and he is in a greater and better position than me, I won't feel bad or get jealous. Because that person must have worked very hard to be in that position.

In fact that person will serve as my motivator, because I will use his success as my motivation, and it will serve as an encouragement for me to work more harder in order to get to where the person is today. Beside what is the Essence of feeling jealous about what someone has, after knowing that he must have made some sacrifices and putting in some efforts, which you could also do in other to be in a position that is far better than his.
Anyone who gets joulous of the success of others around them will not grow because you can't grow by fighting others, but through loving those who has been able to grow around you. Your ability to imitate them by improving on yourself is key if you are to leave your current level Life. You only grow by learning and following the footsteps of those who are ahead of you in life fighting those who are ahead of you is one thing that keeps people back .


People should always invest the time that they are using in fighting other into their performance self development. That is going to help them grow in life faster because your ability to grow in life is linked to your ability of developing yourself.