That i received help from something at the last minute does not make the assurance that i must also follow the same pattern of that thing and go after it, maybe all we could have been together was to have such help he has rendered, if we have been seeking for an avenue to gamble or learn how to do it and then someone invited us to a similar occasion, its not a must for us to accept it, except we already have it in mind or couldn't mind for anything.