The propaganda of war mainly reaches those who are not in the conflict.
Because the civilian infrastructure is used for military purposes. The moment where a civilian building is used as a firing position, to shelter troops (with the exception of injured troops) or even just to store military supplies, it loses its protected status and becomes a legitimate target. When this is true, then the guilt for the civilian casualties is shifted from the attacker to the defender, which is why it is a frequent claim made by the perpetrator of such an attack.